We are either stuck with dating other bears (and yes they, in turn, also can’t stand one another) or you run the risk of falling for someone who fetishizes you for being big (see feeder, gainer and chasers) rather than just being into you for your personality.
Dating for bigger guys is a bit more difficult, since the dating pool is a lot smaller. If you have a nice body you can easily find whatever you are lookin me for whether it’s in a club, at the gym, or online. This normalizes stigmatization and this in turn filters down into all corners of our society.ĭating in the gay community. The joker, the fool, the one that always trips and falls, always the one to be made fun of. Bigger people are always cast as the third wheel to the couple. The same can be said for amounts of followers. Would post something (whether it’s a photo of himself or a funny meme or whatever it may be) it wouldn’t get nearly as enough traction a hot guy would get. That in turn is not a major issue but it’s like being friends with my dad’s friends. What I’m claiming is a observation from a wide variety of social situations.ġ.In my country we do have a small leather/bear community but its mainly older guys (50 plus) which makes them about double my age. Posts that violate these rules but are interesting (a personal vlog from a Tuareg couple, a selfie taken with the Queen, etc.) are encouraged, but subject to removal at discretion.